LOL I never really understood the logic behind asking these kinds of vanity questions--e.g., what color this, or what rims that; when it comes to looks, your decision should be based on what looks good to YOU. Do you buy wheels based on whether they look good to you, or whether they look good to other people? If ten people say that some wheel looks really cool but you're not feeling the same vibe--do you still go ahead and buy the wheel?
OTOH if you honestly can't determine if something looks good on you car in your own eyes, then sure getting another opinion is fair.