Bel4_20,
I had similar issues with dealing with the dash speakers and replacement etc. I took a different approach and removed the dash speakers completely. Then I mounted the component tweeters like this;
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Doing this saved me a huge headache and was far easier and looks alot better. Sound clarity is amazing with these mounted like this as opposed to the dash. In my car the pre-existing wiring for the in-dash speaker was too short to work with unless you want to tear that entire piece out... (ill-advised) and if your planning on replacing the door speakers AND the in-dash speakers too, going component is the cheaper of the two, depending on which brand ya go with. The front half of the car is essentially your "sound stage". I keep all bass away from the front and keep it behind me. Ive was a professional installer for a long time. Now I just do it for fun, I have torn my optima apart more than once changing out audio system components etc. any questions please ask. I have read the other options posted on the site and they are great and will certainly work without a doubt, my way is other side of the same coin... and this way there is no extensions need to be put in or soldering etc. Just a dremel to cut through the plastic and a few zip-ties